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There are many times in a marriage that you will experience hurt, pain, disappointment, and may question how all of it is going to turn out. You will feel yourself get frustrated and irritated at the things your spouse does that at one time may have been cute, overlooked, or secretly was hoping they would not do anymore. When you get into this place you can find yourself…

So many times in a marriage we end up wounding instead of healing our spouse. We react out of our own wounds that we don’t even take notice that our spouse is laying there helplessly bleeding. We look to them to heal us and tend to our wounds instead of seeing that they may be incapable of doing that themselves. How does a married couple get to this place? It is so…

One thing that many of us do is needlessly worry. We allow a thought to come through and then we elaborate on the thought until it spirals out of control. It is one of the biggest things that people battle. A thought will come up in a form of a question about a person or their motives and if it is…

When you choose to get married, you make a commitment to lay your life down and be joined together with another person and become one as a new life. You join together your desires, your dreams, all that you own, everything – it is no longer “I” but it is “we”. The day you get married, you die and become alive with another person joined by God. Everything you do, not just…

We have been given an idea about love in some fashion or another. As a Christian we are taught that we are to walk in love just as Jesus walked in love. In a marriage in particular we expect to see and receive love. What some forget is in a marriage it is very important to give love. Sometimes in a marriage we can lose sight of what our love can do for our spouse. When…

The truth is the right path seems to be the least likely of the two that people will travel. This world seems to be full of selfish behavior, character, motives, and the desire to have control. There are so many times a person will choose their plan over God’s plan. There is an idea that we are in…

There are times when a marriage is about saving a soul. God gives a person an assignment and asks them to enter into a commitment because He needs to use them as a vessel of honor to pull a soul out of the very pits of hell. There are some individuals who have become so bound into a sin that they need unconditional love and someone that is assigned to them that will coach…

One of the most important tools that a husband and wife can use in their marriage is prayer. There are so many people who are quick to complain, lash out, and even give up before they have taken anything before God about their spouse. They find themselves in a whirlwind of exhaustion, frustration, and confusion wondering what happened. In the Word, Proverbs 18:20-21…